Most international moves are judged by a simple checklist: shipment delivered, lease signed, keys in hand. On paper, the relocation looks “successful.” Yet many of the problems that derail assignments don’t show up on that checklist—and they don’t show up at the airport or the port. They start quietly in the first weeks and months after arrival, inside the home, at school, on the commute, and in the family’s day‑to‑day life